Monday, May 12, 2008

If you enjoy your life, it will become easier to manage tough moments.



When people talk about a better life, they mean a more enjoyable life. I have my own tips to enjoy my life.

Be Honest to Myself and Act Honestly to Myself
Being honest to myself is sometime hard. Being honest to my hopes, visions, and dreams can make people who are important to me sad or disappointed, or requires a lot of effort. However, being honest gives me strength and makes me happier.

Take Responsibility for my Life.
My life is mine. I follow myself and make decisions for my life. I can blame nobody about my life. To do so, I have to be strong enough to take all responsibilities for what I did, am doing, and will do. This reduces so much conflict with people and myself.

Love Myself, and Respect Others Values.
I believe that the first step to enjoy my life is to love myself. Respecting other’s values is the first step to grown up.

For me, these three principles are very useful to manage difficult and tough moments, such as when I was about to loose my goals, or when I had a big conflict with a colleague in my office.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Simply Happy

Yizhuo Chen said...

I really like the way you mangage to read your poem during the class, you and professor made an egg-cellent team LOL